For a long time I associated my worth with me not having a relationship with my biological father. I tried to be validated with titles of mom, wife, and prophet, but none of them filled the void. Sometimes people do hurtful things. They lie, cheat, abuse, rape, leave, and that can cause a residue of pain. The pain can only be healed by God. Until you allow him to fill every hurt place you will never be able to completely be free.
1Peter 2:10 Once you had no identity as a people, but now you are God's people. Once you received no mercy; now you have received God's mercy. The association with pain is not who God created you to be! He calls you his beloved! You were called as a royal priesthood from birth. This means nothing that anyone can speak can take your identity. It's up to you to walk in it! Today declare: Lord, I break every unhealthy attachment that I have with people, things, or situations. I will walk in total authority. I am your daughter/son. Today I ask for your mercy and love to fill every crack! In Jesus name Amen!