Psalms 139:13 You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb. If I believe the word of God I must know as he knows me and he allows trial. In Job we find out that the enemy can not do what God don't allow. So, it's one of two reasons why a thing happened: 1. The trial was necessary for growth or 2. Your actions permitted the consequence either way God allowed it. I would always get upset when my feelings get hurt because I would love people unconditionally because I had to set the standard for how I wanted to be treated. However, over 32 years I learned that people can't give you what they have no knowledge of and that I can't change who God made me to be. He created me to be an example of love. So, I love easily without question. You can't change how you were made but you do have power to limit access and use wisdom. Stop beating yourself up over past hurts in relationships! Time to move forward. It only happened again because a lesson unlearned is a lesson returned. Lord, today I divorce my past. Change my perception of myself to be in your image. Let me see who you see and keep that image in my mind until that person manifest. Give me wisdom on the access level I give people in my life. Give me strategy on how to move on from my past. Help me to for I've myself for not walking in truth and to forgive those to hurt me because you hid me. In Jesus name Amen